Greening Vibrators and other briefs

repost from a missing earlier post… our IT team is working on recovering the original post but for now, here is the gist of what I previously wrote. Thanks to reader E.D. for spotting!

Greening vibrators!

Dan Savage talks about the perils of WINE-ing and DINE-ing your date on Valentine’s. Which should be, really, just an excuse to fuck. Click to download podcast.

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