Two women were kicked out of Waterloo’s Café 1842 at the Huether Hotel on March 29. Why? They exchanged a kiss.
A note posted on Facebook explains how university student Jenny Kirby and her girlfriend were asked to leave:
"Tonight, as we were getting ready to leave, my
girlfriend and I exchanged a short kiss (no tongues I swear!) and we
heard her [the café owner] exclaim “What’s going on here!” and walk over to us and
angrily say, “Stop that. That’s enough. This is not the place for that."
was so loud that the whole café stopped and stared. One man was wearing
a bathrobe (no pants) and actually said, “So it’s ok for me to wear a
bathrobe?” Of course, she had no response and quickly disappeared, but
she made it clear that we (dirty lesbians) were not welcome. In the
past, I have been in there with ex boyfriends and we have engaged in
much more physical activity than just an innocent kiss, so I know that
this is not just about people in her café kissing. It’s a “gay"
Wilfrid Laurier University’s TheCord.ca spoke to the owner:
Huether Hotel Sonia Adlys saw the situation a little differently.
"I’m walking up to the café, standing beside the dessert fridge, and
I see two young girls necking. I was hoping it would stop, but it
didn’t,” said Adlys.
"We have senior people, families, we’re a family restaurant. I
walked up to them, yes I was maybe a little bit loud, and I said “excuse me, can you please leave?
"Whether it had been two males, a male and a female or two females,
I don’t want to look at that. It makes me uncomfortable,” said Adlys.
"I don’t care who she was with, it’s not appropriate in a family restaurant.” (read more at TheCord.ca)
Gay kissing! In public! Think of the seniors! THINK OF THE CHILDREN!
In protest, more than 900 people have joined a Facebook page since it was created on Tuesday: Taking Action Against Homophobia in Waterloo Region. There are rumblings of a boycott or kiss-in.
My two cents: go with a kiss-in, rather than a boycott. One of the first stories I covered for Xtra was a similar incident in Ottawa in 2007, when two men were asked to stop kissing at a restaurant. Ottawa queers organized a kiss-in at the restaurant, and a day later, the gay couple received an apology from the owner. Watch the guys talk about what happened, and read more about the 2007 Ottawa kiss-in:
(As an aside… that Ottawa restaurant closed not long after.)