Canada
4 min

‘Nobody ever reminds me of me’

Tomboys, old and young

It was raining the day I met her.

The kind of rain that hits the pavement and puddles so hard it bounces back at the sky, backward and defiant. It was the kind of an evening best spent inside, but there she was, standing soggy on the sidewalk, waiting to talk to me.

As soon as I emerged from the back door of the theatre, she speed walked in a straight line towards me.

Her name was Ruby, she told me, and she was from a small town, about three hours drive from here. She was almost 12 years old and she wanted to be a firefighter when she grew up, or maybe a marine biologist. Her mom had driven her here, so she could see me perform at the Capitol Theater.

It had said on my website that I was going to be reading in Olympia, Washington, and since it was a Saturday and there was no school she had made her mom drive her all this way for my show, but then it turned out that since they were selling alcohol in the theatre she wasn’t allowed inside, not until she turned 21, anyways, which was like, 10 years away, practically.

She took a deep breath, and continued. She had seen me at the folk festival in Vancouver last summer, and I had read a story about a tomboy I had met at the farmers market, did I remember the one?

I nodded, yes, I did.

She shifted her weight from one sneakered foot to the other, and back again, like she needed to pee, and flipped her head back to shake her shaggy bangs out of her eyes. She blurted out her words like machine gun bullets, like she had been rehearsing them for a while, her mouth pursed in a determined little raisin.

When she first heard that story, well, she was just amazed, she told me. She had begged her mom to buy her all of my books right there on the spot, but her mom only had enough money for one. She had to wait until it was her birthday, which was October by the way, until she could get my next book, and then she got one more from her aunt at Christmas, but when was I going to put out a new one?

She liked them all, nearly the same amount, except for Loose End which of course was her favourite because it had the story Saturdays and Cowboy Hats in it, which was the very first story of mine she ever found out about, when she heard me at the park in Vancouver last summer but she had already told me that part.

By this time I was ready to scoop Ruby up in my arms and hug her, but I didn’t because her mom was waiting in the car parked two feet away from where we were standing and I thought it might seem weird.

Ruby stepped sideways, farther under the awning over the door of the theatre. She pulled a love-worn copy of my book out from her rain jacket, and held it out to me.

“Could you sign it for me? To Ruby, love from Ivan? You could say to your biggest fan, Ruby, too, if you felt like it. Whatever you want.”

I wrote “to Ruby, my biggest fan, love your biggest fan, Ivan,” and passed it back to her.

She tucked it back under her armpit for safekeeping. Her fingernails were bitten right down to the quick, just like mine used to be.

“Thanks. I really love your books a lot. Especially the one about the tomboy, cuz, well, the little girl in that story, she reminds me of me.”

She paused for a second, and met my eyes with hers and held them. “And nobody ever reminds me of me.”

I stepped back out into the rain, hoping that it would look like raindrops sliding down my cheeks, not big hot tears. I pulled one of my CDs out of my bag and passed it to her.

“Here you go, this should hold you until the new book is out.”

The last time I saw Ruby she was waving backwards at me from the passenger seat of a beat up station wagon. Her mom honked the horn twice goodbye as they turned and disappeared around the corner.

A couple of weeks ago I was reading at a fundraising dinner in Ottawa, and I met a woman named Hilary. Hilary was in her 50s I would say, wearing black boots and old jeans. She used to own her own house painting company, but she was retired now.

I liked how she shook my hand too hard, how the skin of her palms was still callused, how she spooned too much sugar into her coffee.

I liked how she ate her salad with her dinner fork and didn’t care. Her hair was just getting long enough to brush the collar of her dress shirt and hang over the tops of her ears. This probably bothered her, she probably had an appointment to get it cut early next week, before it got totally out of hand.

After the gig was over, she helped me pack the rest of my books out to my truck. We talked about everything and nothing; what it used to be like working on a jobsite 20 years ago, how it is better now but not by much, what a difference a good pair of snow tires can make, how the old back just ain’t what it used to be, stuff like that.

The snow was falling in fat lazy flakes. The parking lot was empty, except for two trucks, one hers, the other mine. Finally, she shook my hand hard one last time and then pulled me into a hug.

“Make sure you keep in touch,” she told me. “It was great to meet you. You remind me of me, when I was a kid.”