Put your best blowjob forward

Jamye Waxman's recipe for fellatio success

“It’s not a specific twist, turn, lick, flick,” says Jamye Waxman of how to give your partner the best blowjob he’s ever had. “It’s enthusiasm.”

Waxman, a sex expert and writer, says she follows the three Es when discussing blowjobs: enthusiasm, eye contact and emoting.

While eye contact provides a connection, it’s always important that both partners express how they feel, giving cues for what works and what is most enjoyable, she says.

Waxman talks about the most sensitive parts of the penis and which condoms are best for those who want to use protection while giving head.

Check out more of Waxman’s tips in Xtra‘s video interview.



On occasion, the number of editors and other staff who contribute to a story gets a little unwieldy to give a byline to everyone. That’s when we use “Xtra Staff” in place of the usual contributor info. If you would like more information on who contributed to a particular story, please contact us here.

Read More About:
Video, Health, Sexual Health, News, Canada, HIV/AIDS

Keep Reading

Here’s why a ‘Rainbow Week of Action’ is planned across Canada in May

Rallies are planned for May 17 in at least a dozen cities across the country, as well as letter-writing campaigns and education events

7 charts that highlight Chappell Roan’s rise

The "Good Luck, Babe!" singer's popularity has exploded in recent months

How AI image generators fail queer and trans people

The "Cass Review" and its use of AI-generated images highlight some of the key issues with depicting queer and trans people using artificial intelligence

Reneé Rapp’s Coachella set introduced by original ‘The L Word’ stars

Leisha Hailey, Kate Moennig, Jennifer Beals and original series creator Ilene Chaiken gave fans a super queer throwback